
Farra and David's romantic rustic wedding at The Bradford Barn on was a heartfelt celebration of culture, connection, and effortless charm. Blending a meaningful tea ceremony that honoured their Chinese and Vietnamese traditions with a relaxed outdoor Western ceremony, the couple created a day that felt both deeply personal and joyfully authentic. Set against the warm, inviting backdrop of the barn, their palette of burnt orange, cream, and lush greenery captured the essence of early fall. From emotional quiet moments under the trees to a high-energy dance floor and thoughtful details throughout, Farra and David’s romantic rustic wedding was a true reflection of their story—full of laughter, intention, and love.
COUPLE: David & Farra
DATE: September 1, 2024
GUEST #: 120
CEREMONY & RECEPTION LOCATION: The Bradford Barn "We found our venue through good old Google! We knew we wanted a rustic, romantic vibe—something like a barn or winery—and The Bradford Barn checked all the boxes. It was not only beautiful with its charming outdoor and indoor spaces, but it also fit our budget and included so many thoughtful décor options that helped bring our vision to life. One of the biggest perks was being able to bring our own bar, which gave us the flexibility to personalize our drink offerings." - F&D
PHOTOGRAPHER: Little Blue Lemon "We found our photographers, Little Blue Lemon, through our venue’s list of preferred vendors. Their portfolio immediately stood out to us—every photo felt candid and full of joy. Nothing looked overly posed; it just felt like real people genuinely enjoying themselves, which was exactly the vibe we wanted for our day. They were the perfect choice to capture our romantic rustic wedding day." - F&D
COLOUR PALETTE: "For our tea ceremony, we honoured our cultures through traditional attire— I wore a blue áo dài to represent my Vietnamese traditions and Farra wore a red cheongsam to celebrate her Chinese roots. We also provided white parasols for our guests to keep them cool and shaded during the ceremony. For the Western ceremony and the rest of the evening, we wanted a romantic rustic wedding and our colour palette shifted to warm, earthy tones: burnt orange, cream, and various shades of green. Since we got married in September, we wanted the aesthetic to feel like the early days of fall—cozy, inviting, and reminiscent of turning leaves and the harvest season." - F&D
TELL US YOUR STORY!: "The first time I met Farra was at tryouts for the Barrie ultimate frisbee team, Force, in the spring of 2018. She came out because a few of her friends were already on the team and she wanted to play with them. From the moment she stepped on the field, it was clear she was a force herself—athletic, focused, and quick on her feet. Unsurprisingly, she made the team. The rest of the group welcomed her right away.
I, however, wasn’t exactly rolling out the red carpet. I’m not someone who naturally strikes up conversations with people I don’t know well. While everyone else chatted with her and made her feel at home, I mostly kept to myself. I think I said maybe one sentence to her that whole season.
Fast forward to spring 2019. We both ended up at an ultimate frisbee tournament in Hawaii—Farra was playing with a women’s team from Ontario, and I was on a men’s team. During one of her games, a group of us guys were on the sidelines cheering the women on by calling out their jersey numbers. I couldn’t see Farra’s, so I shouted, “Farra! What’s your number?”
She turned around, clearly confused—probably thinking, this guy has barely spoken to me all year and now he’s yelling at me from the sidelines?—and called back, “You have to buy me dinner first!”
I fired back with, “I’ll take you to Chick-fil-A!”
Without missing a beat, she said, “You don’t even know me.”
Here’s the kicker: that exact phrase—“you don’t even know me”—was my Instagram bio. She didn’t know that. Somehow, she quoted me back to myself. I was stunned. That moment stuck.
To this day, I swear I was just trying to cheer her on. Farra insists it was a pickup line. Whatever it was, I’m really glad I asked.
Our first few dates were spaced out over months. But over time, we realized we didn’t want to be apart. Our relationship just… clicked. We shared values, supported each other’s goals, laughed a lot, and never seemed to run out of things to talk about. Arguments were rare, and when they did happen, it was usually over something world-shattering… like ultimate frisbee strategy. Farra would sometimes joke that our relationship felt like a dream—maybe even a side effect of pandemic-induced isolation. But the world reopened, and our relationship kept growing stronger.
At first, marriage wasn’t on our radar. We were just enjoying each other’s company—like savoring the last bite of a perfectly torched crème brûlée. But the more time we spent together, the more the idea of a wedding felt exciting. I think my “this is it” moment came during a trip through Europe. As I was planning our itinerary, I noticed I cared more about what Farra wanted to see and do than about my own checklist. That’s when I realized: I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her." - D
CAKE: T2 Event Catering
FLORAL: Love and Things
BRIDE'S ATTIRE: The One Bridal
GROOMS ATTIRE: Thang Loi
BRIDESMAIDS ATTIRE: Shein, Azazie and David's Bridal
GROOMSMEN ATTIRE: Style Code
HAIR & MAKEUP: AnnimationsMkUp Professional Make Up and Hair Styling
CATERING: Cibo Special Event Catering
OFFICIANT: Soul Fire Collective - Officiant Janine
RENTALS: Aurora Party Rentals
WEDDING FAVOUR/PLACE CARDS/COASTERS: Mag Blooms
BIGGEST CHALLENGE: "We were surprisingly efficient with the big-ticket items early on—we booked our venue, photographer, officiant, and DJ well in advance, which gave us a huge sense of relief. After that, we took what we thought would be a well-earned break. In hindsight… maybe a bit too long of a break.
The biggest challenge came later, when we suddenly found ourselves facing all the smaller—but still important—details in the final weeks before the wedding. Things like finalizing the seating chart, printing table menus, organizing the alcohol order, arranging place cards, confirming vendor logistics… all the things that don’t feel major until you realize how much they add up. It was like a hundred tiny decisions hit us all at once.
We tackled it by dividing and conquering. We made a shared spreadsheet to keep track of what still needed to be done, who was responsible for it, and when it needed to happen. We also reminded ourselves (frequently!) that perfection wasn’t the goal—getting married and celebrating with our people was. Our friends and family also stepped in in huge ways, helping us with last-minute tasks and reminding us to laugh through the chaos.
In the end, the little things came together beautifully. Sure, there were a few late nights and frantic last minute shopping orders, but everything worked out. If anything, the scramble reminded us that weddings are a team effort—and that sometimes the imperfect parts make for the best memories." - D
BEST MEMORY: "One of the highlights for us was our choreographed first dance, which led into a surprise wedding party performance to High School Musical’s “We’re All in This Together.” None of us are professional dancers—honestly, we probably looked way better in our heads—but it was so much fun, and the crowd’s reaction made it all worth it.
But the memory that stands out most happened after the ceremony. After the whirlwind of vows, congratulatory hugs, and family photos, we found ourselves tucked away under a beautiful weeping willow tree with a drink in hand, just the two of us. It was the first time that day we could sit still, breathe, and look each other in the eyes. For a quiet moment, the world fell away. We weren’t even sure if the fact that we were married had fully sunk in yet—but there we were. Together. Just us." - D
ADVICE FROM ONE COUPLE TO ANOTHER: "Wedding costs can definitely add up faster than you think, so one of the best things you can do early on is take some time—individually—to ask yourself: What are my top three priorities for the wedding? What truly matters most to you? It could be the food, the music, the photos, the venue, or something else entirely. Once you’ve each identified your top priorities, share them with each other and build your budget around those core elements.
Also, don’t underestimate the power of DIY, borrowing from friends, or letting go of traditions that don’t resonate with you. Not everything needs to be expensive to be meaningful. Some of our favourite touches were simple, personal, and budget-friendly—and they ended up being the ones we cherish the most." - D&F
See this romantic rustic wedding in the Fall/Winter 2025 issue of The Wedding Ring Magazine
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